1. SANGEET/GARBA: A pre-wedding event where families gather to sing, dance, and celebrate the upcoming marriage. This lively evening is filled with music, traditional folk songs, and sometimes friendly competitions.
2. MEHNDI CEREMONY: Held the day before the wedding, the bride’s hands and feet are adorned with intricate henna designs. These designs often hide the groom’s name, and the darkness of the henna is believed to reflect the strength of the marriage and the love between the couple.
3. THE BRIDE’S ATTIRE: Traditionally, a South Asian bride wears a red sari or modern lengha, symbolizing commitment and fertility. The rich colors and gold embroidery highlight the auspiciousness of the occasion.
4. BARAAT/VARA YATRA: The groom’s grand entrance to the wedding site is marked by music, dancing, and the joyous gathering of his guests. The bride’s family welcomes the groom with a rice toss (akshat) and a ceremonial lamp (arati).
5. KANYADAAN: The bride is led to the ceremony by her brothers or uncles, where her father gives her away to the groom, symbolizing the official union.
6. THE MANDAP: The wedding takes place under a beautifully decorated mandap, a sacred space where the couple is joined by their families and the officiant. The mandap is adorned with flowers, greenery, and crystals.
7. SACRED FIRE (AGNI): A fire is kindled at the center of the mandap, serving as a witness to the marriage. Offerings, such as puffed rice, are made to the fire as a symbol of the couple’s future prosperity.
8. PRAYER TO GANESHA: The ceremony begins with a prayer to Ganesha, the remover of obstacles, ensuring a smooth path for the couple’s married life. The couple’s ancestral lineages (gotra) are also announced.